We are coming up to a month since I had to make the gut-wrenching decision to set my sweet little doggy, Julee Rose, free. It’s not been easy. I’ve made it a point to fill my days with activities to keep my heart from ripping out of my chest…and although some of the activates were centered around preserving the memory of Julee, it has been helpful. Or so I think.
The day I searched and found the perfect rose tree…the golden orange blossom with yellow centers, and the perfectly matched pot, I received the most extraordinary gift from a long time friend & neighbor. He had a tile made with Julee’s image on it; something that will sit nicely in the pot at the foot of the rose tree.
A few days later, a package came in the mail from another friend who lives across the waters….she had read my previous blog about sleeping with Julee’s blanket and had a pillow cover made with Julee’s picture on it. Such a wonderful thought. (Not to miss mentioning the many gifts of donations in Julee’s memory that will go to help other furbabies that are ‘in need of’…her memory does live on!)
My little furry friend certainly has great tributes that surround my home. And yet, when I go outside to water the garden and talk to my fruit trees, I fall into such a state of sadness. My heart misses my Julee to such a deep degree as my mind envisions her basking in the sun in her favorite places, or following me around the yard.
A part of me has reasoned that Julee came into my life as a rescue to fill a small place in my heart that needed to be filled. And she did that so incredibly well—her job was fulfilled. But over the course of the eleven plus years together, that small place grew to an extraordinary size as we bonded into the friendship we had.
I have already looked on rescue websites for doggies that need a forever home. Our home needs to be completed by the being of a doggy—and yet I need to agree with my son as I don’t think it’s the right time. I need to honor the relationship I had with Julee. I often asked her “what would I do without you?”….even asked her that as recent as 2 months ago….
I still don’t have the answer…